During the winter, my heartstrings were tugged relentlessly by the passing of friend’s parents.
In particular, two of my BlogHer Soul Mates were facing the transitional loss of their mothers after giving devoted long term care. As their situations were similar to that of when my own father died, it was hard for me to witness their losses, so effectively posted on their blogs, Comments and Facebook.
I was thinking about both of them today, along with the passing of my grandfather, my mother’s father, who died on May 2. You know this must be years ago, because, it was when I was eight years old.
I remember the phone ringing in the middle of the night, my mother talking to my father and the hustle bustle of preparation to go soothe my grandmother.
Memories of the funeral, big family meals and playing with my cousins have carried with me all my life. But, to this day, the most poignant memory is my mother’s story about her sitting on our front porch crying. Suddenly, without any physical movement behind her on the porch, she felt a warmth on her back and a hand touching her right shoulder, patting it while she heard her father’s voice say, “There, there, Marty. It’s OK.”
Growing up with this story, you can see why I have pondered the afterlife and reincarnation. When thinking of death and it’s assumed finality, I’ve always thought the reincarnation beliefs of the Eastern religions might ring true. And so, I have read anything I could about life after death and reincarnation.
Eventually I happened on to the book, “The Search for Bridey Murphy,” telling of a women, Virginia Tighe, being hypnotized and dictating stories of a Bridey Murphy who was born in 1798 while living in Ireland. Reading about these interesting hypnotic sessions, I soon was also reading how, when she was a child,Virginia Tighe lived across from an Irish immigrant named Bridie Murphy Corkell and must have had a memory base for her hypnotically induced tales. And so, although my interest was peaked for studying reincarnation, the facts of the Bridey Murphy case did not prove definitive.
But, fast forward forty years and the invention of YouTube later. I was tooling along through YouTube videos a while back, when one caught my eye: the story of James Leininger, who at two years old began talking to his parents about planes and the battle of Iwo Jima in World War II, many things which a two year old probably wouldn’t know.
I was amazed by the videos and have played them several times since. I won’t ruin the videos for you, but I have to say, this is a most startling case of reincarnation memories with a defined, documented source. And, no matter how you personally feel about the validity of it all, you’ll have to admit, it’s very interesting. So, see what you think!
James “3″ says he’s lived before as James “2″
Said to be the MOST AMAZING Reincarnation Story
Tags: James Houston, James Leininger, life after life, reincarnation, spirit, WWII
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When I joined BlogHer in November of 2011…
…never did I think I would be attending the highlight of the BlogHer.com 2012 social season, the BIG conference in New York City, BlogHer ’12
But, little by little the pieces fit together and there I was, last week and over the weekend, sleeping in the Hilton New York Hotel on 6th Avenue with the best of them. For a blessed five days, Frank Sanatra’s New York, New York was my playground and 5,000 BlogHers were my best friends. I couldn’t have been happier, so I am counting the days until I can register for BlogHer ’13.
Main Entrance Rotunda of the Hilton New York.
In my professional lives, I have been to many such gatherings throughout the years. For big and little conferences, conventions and national meetings, I have traveled the country. Delighting in posh circles, I have selected watercress sandwiches off silver trays decorated with live waterlilies at a National Gallery of Art reception where black tie waiters set the exclusive tone in Washington, D.C.
But, never, ever, EVAR have I attended a gathering on the grand scale of BlogHer ’12. For that reason, as I notice some negative blogs are being posted about inconsequential details, I would like to to hold up my index finger, wave it back and forth and say, “HUH Uh! Don’t you say that about MY BlogHer.”
The Gate to BlogHer ’12, New York City
Was everything perfect? NO! Was it a beyond incredible experience? YES! Would I do it over? Without a doubt. Will I go next year? Just try and stop me. Would I encourage friends to go? I will threaten them until they agree. So, yes! Count me in, but because others feel so inclined, let’s just chat a few minutes about planning BIG events.
Have you ever planned a dinner party, just one meal, for thirty guests? Pretty big headache, huh? Picture planning the guest list, finding a space, coordinating the food and beverage menu, securing entertainment and then, charting the seating arrangements. Lots to do, wouldn’t you say? And, lots of ‘To Do Lists” to pull that off with gusto.
Now, let’s gear that migraine way up by adding five days worth of activities for 5,000 more guests and, just for an added challenge, let’s put on a blind fold and guess how many people will want to attend, NOT NOW, but in two to three years?!?!
Delicious, healthy food for all disciplines and dictates.
Yes, it’s true! Many large conference events have to be planned two to three years ahead of time. And remember, in planning this event, you’ll have to negotiate the prices according to anticipated attendance and pay a sizable deposit based on how many people will day trip the event compared to the number sleeping over, paying for rooms. Did you know that fees for use of meeting rooms, conference rooms, ball rooms and lounges are all coordinated with attendance numbers and the number of sleepover guests?
But, wait! There’s more! Let’s say you are planning a multimedia event that not only encompasses a two floor Industry Trade Show, but also on-site educational classes, discussion panels, lectures, hands on demos and Whoops!, how about six parties back to back? Should we throw in a top-of-the-line fashion show with drinks, finger food and runway complete with audio and lighting? Need we mention the make-over and training of inexperienced runway models? Sure!
Glitter and Light Sticks at the Sparklecorn Party,
one of six BlogHer ’12 parties.
Why not!?! Why, that’s nothing compared to enticing five big name celebrities AND PRESIDENT OBAMA to drop by and share their lives as if we’re all drinking buddies. And how about the food? BlogHer ’12 seemed to have the most expensive food, drink and break set-ups possible. The quality of the buffets, the vast quantities and the sensitivity to culture and diet dictates were obvious, noteworthy and appreciated.
And how about reaching out to all attendees with love and affection coupled with a sincere desire to promote everyone’s careers and financial welfare? Are you starting to get the picture of what the BlogHer administrative staff accomplished last week? I mean seriously, is the glass half empty or half full?
Well, to me the glass is full to the brim. Was I irritated as a Newbie that I didn’t get to sit down for my one-time Newbie Breakfast to hear Deb Rox’s welcome? Yes, but I’m over it. Was it irritating to sit at the very back of the Grand Ball Room unable to hear Martha Stewart and stare at a black marble pillar where her face should be? Yes, but Scarlett, forget the orange shoes; tomorrow’s another day!
Do I feel that I attended a fantastic gathering of women whose love and energy was enveloping and high minded? Yes, I do. I believe all members of the BlogHer ’12 staff gave of themselves physically, emotionally and intellectually above and beyond their job description, in order to further everyone’s conference experience.
Bottom line? It was a tremendous undertaking and it was well worth minor irritations and inconveniences. These shortcomings will be forgotten as the returning rewards of education, networking and sustaining friendships carry us into more secure futures as a result of attending BlogHer ’12. So while we critique to make things better for next year, let’s say, “Huzzah!” for this year, never forgetting the work that went into it.
Here’s to you Lisa, Elisa and Jory! Kudos for a job well done!
Tags: blogging conferences, BlogHer '13, brand names, Hilton New York, NYC, PR, sponsors
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Nothing bettern than Chocolate Ganche Cake
Once upon a time, in upstate New York, there lived a fairy princess named Laine or Lainey, as the people of BlogHer Castle sometimes liked to say. Lainey was very beautiful, was married to a handsome prince and had children that were known to drive her nuts over a cabin feverish long winter as only upstate New Yorkers can have.
And many happy returns!
As Laine can tell you, even fairy princesses have dreams. Laine dreamed of being a big, bad roller derby Queen and turning in her sparkling pink fairy dusted ball gown for a roller derby persona named Crazy Eyeris. As Crazy Eyeris, Laine didn’t have problems with anything, least of all the weather, so she and her husband and kids lived happily ever after. THE END.
Tags: family, lids, New York, party, roller derby, spring, winter survival, year older
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Kitty on her comfy Cat Window Perch.
We’re cat people, reasonable cat people. At least I like to think it’s reasonable. In many cases, cat people do not chose to be cat people, rather they are chosen by the cats who come to own them. And in many cases, the only reason reasonable cat people can call themselves reasonable is because they did not seek out the little friends who came to call and never left.
And so, I introduce to you to Kitty, a cat with a name that might sound mundane except that her full name is Katherine. Kitty was born in a field in Frederick, Maryland by a mother cat that did the best she possible could for her.
Kitty’s mother did not have a home and humans to serve her when she became an expectant mother. Kitty’s mother was living in a field in an industrial park off of Buckeystown Pike within sight of Interstate Road I-270. It was not a picturesque location for a cat with good breeding and cultural tastes, but, nevertheless, it was where Kitty’s mother found herself when it was time to give birth.
So, on a bright August day in the year 2000, Kitty was born to a life of frugal means and sometimes deprivation. While other kittens her age snuggled together with their mommas in warm boxes and cat beds, Kitty and her family lived in rabbit holes and ate crickets for dinner.
And, knowing her history and how she had had to sacrifice as a kitten, we have always tended to spoil her, as a reasonable cat owner tends to do anyway. Kitty’s life has never been the same, though, since we installed a Cat Window Perch. Now her Window Perch is her FAVORITE spot in our home and where we know we can find her if she is not underfoot. For an indoor cat, its a satisfying way to connect with the outdoors, watch a few birds and drift off into sleepy bye.
So, because I know there are cat owners out there with the same tendencies to spoil their babies, may I recommend the Cat Window Perch, a veritable oasis of feline heaven?
Kitty becoming somewhat conscious.
If this sounds like it might interest a furry person at your house, go to a pet supply to find a ready-made Window Perch or invest some time in making a similar one yourself by clicking on ehow for directions.
Either way, your cat will thank you everyday and maybe even renew your owner contract when it comes up for review. Mouse over the link below to see a photo of the Cat Window Perch without the cover blankets.
If you go to Amazon, you’ll notice some of the reviews speak of the covers wearing out. When we bought our Window Perch, we also bought a yard or so of 60″ wide fleece and cut it into sections to make easily washed cover blankets. We had so much fabric, we could make spares that when folded up and placed on the ends of the perch acted like little pillows. Oh! So snugly. I want one!
Tags: cat, felines, indoor, pets, window seats
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